5 reasons why marriages end in divorce

Know the signs.These are love sex and marriage 5 reasons why marriages end in divorce at an alarming rate nowadays

1)One of the reasons why marriages end in divorce largely due to the routine. Stiff elaborate patterns, constant routines and an unchanging, formal co-existence, which removes that all important natural flow of emotions,love, and physical enjoyment of each other, and bring in that deadly enemy of marriage … boredom. Once you have opened the door to boredom in your marriage, it is very hard to remove or recover from it. It’s usually down hill from there.

SEX AND MARRIAGE

(2)Monotonous Sex. Great sex an important ingredient in marriage. A glue that can deepen your love and emotions for each other.Marriages end in divorce, when you start taking sex for granted. Sex becomes monotonous, uneventful and dull. At this point, the marriage is already crumbling, because your all important glue which is sex, is falling apart.

(3)Competition: Marriages end in divorce, sometimes very quickly , when the two partners are in competition with each other. They could be competing in anything from money and sex, friends and family, kids, background, work and education. There’s really no way the marriage can last, or stay happy if this persists.

pride and love

(4)A lot of marriages end in divorce because of pride. Marriage is one institution, where the saying “Pride comes before a fall” comes constantly and effectively into play.Pride is one of the most destructive emotions. Pride brings about an unnecessary, stiff necked, unwillingness to adjust or compromise. To let go or forgive.It ruins love, closeness,intimacy and sex. This gets worse, until two hateful, married strangers are fully born.

(5) “Said I Loved You But I …” If love was not a foundation before the marriage began, then trying to build love when the marriage has already begun, will most probably fail.plenty of marriages end in divorce because of this.